Collaborative law

Why should I choose collaborative family law?

Collaborative family law is a relatively new process for dealing with family disputes. This is a process where there are two collaborative lawyers per separating couple, so that each partner has their own independent lawyer to advise and support them through the process. There are four way meetings involving lawyers and separating couples. Each collaborative lawyer is advising his or her specific client and the overall focus is on achieving amicable consensus.

The process involves commitment from the parties and lawyers to achieving a settlement agreement through constructive discussion. Negotiation takes place at four way meetings involving lawyers and clients.

The collaborative law process allows you to reach a settlement that is right for you and your family rather than having one imposed on you by the court. The process moves forward at a speed chosen by the separating couple not at any speed dictated by any outside agency, such as the court.

Where necessary financial advisers and other experts can be brought into the process to assist where all parties agree that this will be helpful.

What are the advantages of collaborative law over other process?

  • Control. The entire process remains within the control of you and your separating partner and you determine the settlement rather than having it imposed upon you by a court.
  • Less paperwork, more communication. The collaborative law process involves direct face to face meetings rather than matters being dealt with through correspondence and this goes a long way to building understanding.
  • “off the wall outcomes”. As an agreement is being reached by you and your separating partner rather than being imposed upon you, it leaves available options for more creative outcomes that could not be imposed but can be agreed. This is often a benefit for separating couple.
  • Costs. A collaborative process can often be a cheaper more expedient way of achieving a settlement than a costly lengthy court process.

For further information, please contact our specialist collaborative lawyers at Farnfields who will talk you through the process and ascertain whether or not the collaborative law process is suitable for you and will be able to answer any queries that you may have.

Our specialists


Jo Pridmore
Senior Associate Solicitor - Collaborative Lawyer
Sarah Jones, Partner at Farnfields Solicitors
Sarah Jones
Partner - Family Mediator - Collaborative Lawyer